Said by Women about orgasmworkshop etc.

Anja, 47, business manager, Fredericia: I ejaculate when I orgasm, and I have been unhappy for years - until I met a man who was highly appreciated by my spray! I was tired, embarrassed and sorry for all the trouble with towels and plastic - and although he loved it, I relaxed not of! Then I met Pia - came to the course with her, and it appeared to me that the spraying is about a reflex, a muscle in my abdomen - which I actually can control and decide over. Pias knowledge and education, supplemented by assigned exercises did that when I went home from the course - even had power over my orgasms with and without splashing! Now decide I - and no longer has a strained relationship with towels and plastic - it must just to. I enjoy very much being able to let go when the situation allows it - but also to be able to hold back when the situation requires. That I got turned my reflex does not mean that my orgasms have gotten poorer quality - quite the contrary. I am now able to "be in my body" and "flow with," for now I'm not up in my consciousness and control "how wrong things went";-) THANK YOU Pia - you "moved some pieces" with me .

Denice, 22 years old, students, Nørrebro:
THANK YOU for an amazing weekend in Pias and three other beautiful women company. It has been absolutely fantastic, instructive and very exciting. All women should take a weekend course with Pia.
It has been so healing, life-affirming and informative. Although I was the youngest on the course it has been a huge gift, to learn from women who are on a completely different place in life. It has only been rewarding.
On several occasions I have heard of Pia in different contexts via TV, articles and finally in a great radio interview that made me take the last crucial step. Every time I have encountered Pia, her approach has been enormously inspiring and appealing, but there should still take a few years, from the first time I heard about her until the day I stood and rang the door bell at Jorcks Passage, where she has therapy room. My intuition told me that "I should just" and luckily had my gut feeling right. Of course there have been many concerns about whether it was something for me, and I could make myself so vulnerable and sit naked in front of other women, because I have enjoyed it enormously difficult with my body - I was ready to work as physical . But Pia created a room full of confidence, acceptance and joy that made everything easier, despite the grain from my side.
Pia is truly a heart, who wants his "course daughters" the best it can be clearly felt. She is totally and through his heart, which is very inspiring. Pias weekend has changed my view on so many things. She removed my shame and sorry name over my body and gave me a lot of tools to work with in the future. It all has just begun and with everything that I have missed, it can only go forward:-)
After the course I have felt much happier, more vibrant, effortless and warm your heart. I've always had difficulty being in my body and have always been very in the head - in general - but especially during sex with partners. Thoughts like "I see too thick out" "I'm good enough," and "he thinks I look ugly bottom" has always flourished around in my head, which has been very unhelpful both for me and him, I was with. I have tried to practice to be more in the body via eg yoga, but it has never managed to find my core. But Pia gave me the tools to find my core and get back to myself. There where I most want to be, where you learn to love themselves.
It has been a very touching process for me, which has only just begun.
I can with all heart warming recommend Pia and her teaching.
It is a huge gift to give yourself. Thank you from the heart.
 

Sally, 44, a nurse and stud. Psyk, Copenhagen: I can definitely recommend Pia as orgasm coach!
Orgasms are not rocket science - and yet! There are so many of us women who have difficulty achieving orgasm or to "own" our sexual desire.
Pia works by a method that works. But method alone is not enough! Pia has an unrivaled ability to tune in to the individual she sits opposite and provide the help needed with incomparable warmth and empathy.
I have since I was very young well able to have an orgasm. Orgasm - an orgasm that was like a sneeze. "Piuuu" and that was the end. I was quite happy for them, but after the course I get many orgasms that succeed one another. 6-10 orgasms of different size and nature. Deep orgasms that makes my stomach tighten up to the diaphragm. Orgasms throughout the body, which causes the limbs shiver and quiver. Some are wet orgasms where I syringes up to a half a liter (and yes, I have considered the towels then because I was curious ...), others are "sharp" clitoral orgasms and orgasms that makes my vagina and abdomen to contract rhythmically in voluptuous waves.
Before, I spent 10 minutes tops to masturbate - so it had to be enough. Now I know I can enjoy myself for 3-4 hours! Pias mixing console makes it eternally interesting to have sex with myself!
 
Sibylle, 43, arts and dance, Frederiksberg: It's been a great experience for me to be on orgasm course. One of the biggest has been to be inside Pias sphere where she has created a safe, caring, loving and free hits to open myself up with other women about things you do not normally talk about and not exploring together. It has been wonderful to be with other women that way. It was a packed program with much knowledge.

Pia is very highly qualified in its territory and her training has been intense and in-depth, where I got the feeling that there was so much more she could have told, but we could not reach. The first evening we saw three videos with Betty Dodson about the way she conducts courses for women. It gave a good warm for our own course and made me more aware and confident about what would happen. Both Betty and videos on our course, we saw how diverse and fascinating women's genitals are designed. It was grænseudvidende stripping off and showing his genitals until the others and myself. I had never in my 43 years seen my genitals with a mirror, nor with so much love as Pia made me feel. It is thought-provoking. Now I made it for the first time and even with other women. I think it was brave of us all. But again, Pia created the comfortable and warm environment for that it could be done and that it felt natural. There was much love and warmth from woman to woman with an awareness that it is not easy to sit in 'the hot seat'.

The last day we opened up further, as together we had to use the techniques we had learned to get better sex and better orgasms. One would think that it would be weird or cross-border, but because of. The atmosphere and the ring of femininity and confident feminine cave there was, it felt quite natural to explore our bodies together and get orgasms together.
I walked away with a deep warmth and appreciation for these women and all women in the world and that we can have together. Moreover, I felt more womanly than ever and yearn after only meet with women again.
It is now up to me to use the knowledge and experiences I have got to get even more performance and better sex. I am looking forward to having dates with myself, rediscover and genværdsætte my temple and explore more with my partner.
Thanks to Pia for having facilitated these experiences for me! Come on women, be brave and try it!
 
Mette, 22 year political science student, Aarhus: I have never been able to have an orgasm, and was beginning to think that maybe I just was one of those that just would never happen. I could not quite come to terms with the idea and decided to do something drastic. Here came Pia and an orgasm course in Århus into the picture ...

I can not describe in words how rewarding meeting with Pia and the other three women on the team was! I sucked me of life experience and good advice, and I saw for the first time to feel like a whole person. My abdomen was before just a part of myself that I obviously had been in contact with physically, but never really had appreciated or see the beauty in. Now I think my flower is one of the most beautiful and I will never again compromising what I throw at it!

The climax came literally on Sunday afternoon, where we once again sat in the circle. Strangely enough, I found it not cross, but closed my eyes and disappeared into my own world where Pias instructions along the way helped me to reach my first orgasm ever. And it was amazing! It was not even just a regular orgasm, but a spray-multi orgasm where I came 5-6 times at something like 10 min.!

ALL can have an orgasm, and all deserve it. I practice still diligently at home, and although it is still not easy, there has been progress, which I had never dreamed about 1 year ago.

I am only 22 years old, and was the youngest on the team. But there were women of all ages, just did it even fatter and more rewarding. They also said all along that they wish they had come to Pia earlier in their lives.

If you are reading this, then you have taken a position. So jump into it with both feet, and have a great experience that changes your life - and it can not be measured in money! :-)

Michelle, 30, Fitness and slimming instructor, Holbaek: When I first contacted Pia, I had no idea what the course would do to me. However, I knew that I would come out with his arms up over his head. How was it too! I came with no love for myself, it was as if a switch had been turned off. The contact Pia managed to turn back. I was comfortable with Pia and gave just drop.

The last day of the course, I found out that I was only half would not acknowledge myself in the mirror. The recognition I got and the support of the other participant got my eyes opened. I got some kind of redemption-orgasm which made tears rolled down my cheeks and heat spread out in my body like a deep beautiful love myself. From that point, I could tell Pia that I love myself. The moment I am deeply grateful to you, Pia. A big THANK YOU to you showed me the way. Every time I look in the mirror now, it is with a smile and positive energy. Can only highly recommend Pia and say that all would benefit from a suspension check. Love Valmuen

Tania, 62, Osho therapist, Frederiksberg: I have been on Pias orgasm course for women 1, but had to go home as that did not experience orgasm on the course itself and that was darn shame that I ended up on the course, as I ended up before the course in "it's uncomfortable, I will not again, stop stop" and got stuck there, as usual .. I went a little half crestfallen home.

On Monday night it was indeed so these exercises at home, but I was still "no, no more" and decided to respect it, and put just a hand over the vulva. I felt an enormous pleasure by squeezing, so the hand was hit on both sides of the muscles in the groin. It felt oh so good and nice, so I went on and was just and enjoyed it while I saw half a dull broadcast TV. Suddenly I started the sounds that I heard from the students who had an orgasm on the course. It was along the lines of if I get tickled surprising. But there was nothing "fireworks" chirps ... The strange thing was that it built up again after a short while, as a small swirl of energy, so went the energy for a little how it felt as a source and again these source sounds. It was Satan ... It started again after a short time and again .. and again sørme. Sometimes the start-sound now, ah ah etc ..- see the process all by itself .. I even had cramp in the foot once and wrinkled as Pia had described that they can do in orgasm. Sometimes threw his head over backwards, and there were more "symptoms" that this was an orgasm. And it went on and on. Now could energicirklerne even start other parts of the body such as the knee, and now I knew the pattern - the little "sources it again." I would have given gold to have a miss as I could ask if this was orgasm, and pondered calling Pia, but it was past 22, (according to my ethics you do not call to the people so late) and I was also nervous about such action would stop the flow, but at some point I had to go pee and I did, put me in and it continued again ... and again .. suffered the same pattern, but a little differently. I begin to worry about neighbors o. The like. and would like to change position, instead went to bed, but then petered it out. But in each there were many over 10 (maybe 20 ?, I talked's not) of these source arteries. Pia had said at the end of the course that we were welcome to call if something came up the next few weeks, so I think that I must therefore ask whether this was an orgasm. I thought it COULD be, but my idea of what an orgasm was, did not meet the (inner fireworks o etc.), actually it was "just" this energy building - the source of the dune and sounds - but that it repeated itself again and again I think was "suspicious." I called Pia and she said "it's orgasm" yabadabadooo.

It is now Thursday and I have the past few days trying to repeat the phenomenon, but it is not as easily as it races that evening, but when was the energy of course also heavily built up from the course and I failed on 2 things I see 1) first, I want it repeats itself, that is the same way - and 2) in part I WILL nOW hAVE tHE HAPPENING and not just relaxing with pleasure as the described today. - Not 2 orgasms are the same, - says Pia, I welcome the tilde next, and am super happy with my "victory".

Helena, 32, lawyer, Copenhagen: If you're reading this, have difficulty getting orgasms or not at all, I can delight you with that which is pure technique, and Pia can teach you it.

I have always been very fond of sex but unfortunately I have so far only managed to get random orgasms in connection with dreams. After participating in Pias weekend course, it's no problem for me to masturbate myself to orgasm and it is indescribable nice. It's much more simple than I dared dream about and I have great joy of art.

I really wanted to learn how to have an orgasm when awake and when I even want it, but if I have to be honest, I did not really on that I could learn it, let alone naked in the company of strangers! They succeeded and I can not describe too great a gift it is.

Pia managed to create a sufficiently safe and natural ambience to the whole process of train masturbation and getting orgasms in the company of others felt quite ok, though one which I am a little shy. You think it's a lie, but in the situation it actually feels fine to be naked and masturbate together with foreign women and I want to stress that while there was a warm and familiar atmosphere us women from, there is no question about the exchange of no adult learners from - it's all 100% sober. Before the course I had previously tried to masturbate, but always totally without success. It quickly became boring and I lost interest. I thought by now that there was a miracle in order for it to succeed, but there is zero magic about it, Pia taught. Two sex toys, breathing and movements and hook with the abdomen, then comes orgasms rolling. It's that simple.

One, stunning universe has opened up for me and I'm Pia deeply grateful. If I can learn it, you can too.

Christina, 31, psychologist, Bronshoej: I have had an unforgettable experience at the weekend, and I find it difficult to find words that can fully recoup, but I'll try.

I have for many years considered myself to be a pretty asexual human, and I have never achieved an orgasm, although I have often felt close to. I have almost never masturbated, and the sexual just have not been an important part of my life, although I have had regular partners for 10 years. On the course, I experience having had a basic knowledge of my genitals and the mechanisms behind an orgasm, I do not know how I would otherwise have been. Unfortunately, it is not fixed syllabus in school or in too many parents' upbringing of their children. I have also had some "skeletons in the closet", including in the form of some bad sexual experiences in my early youth. However, I have not been aware of the extent to which this has hampered me in my sexual performance, but now I see clearly. I feel that I Pias, was able to exceed a threshold within myself, so that I now dare to stand as a woman with a natural desire for a lot of good sex - both with myself and with others!

Video evening Friday was a bit of a marathon with a lot of input, so I went there as a very tired, but also informed and inquisitive human being: What would happen Saturday and Sunday? I felt open to the new, but also mildly skeptical about whether it really succeed for me to have an orgasm - ever.

Saturday was an intense and very interesting day !!! We talked and talked - about the past, present, wishes and dreams for our sexual development. We admired each other's beautiful "flower", which felt surprisingly positive and cozy. And we made ourselves mentally ready for Sunday's challenges.

And it had to be a Sunday, I will never forget. We started out soft with a "lately" - round, but after a few hours we went to the chase - what most of us probably had been waiting all weekend: to try the infamous "Hitachi magic wand" -vibrator well as a very elegant appearance metal dildo. I was still a bit skeptical, but thought now that we would succeed at a time to have an orgasm. However, I did not expect that the reward for this weekend's concentrated work should fall so promptly: After about ½ hour self massage and use of the two "tools" under expert instruction and with frequent shouts to keep, maintain and extend from Pia I got a huge orgasm! It felt totally overwhelming and indescribable fantastic. It was greeted by cheers from the bystanders. There was an atmosphere of trust, which made it easy to let go and relinquish control. It was also fantastic to be allowed to attend the other students get orgasms alternately or simultaneously - a pretty unique experience.

During the 1½ hour, we worked with the learned techniques and not least dildo and vibrator I got no fewer than four powerful orgasms, which was more than I had hoped to be able to get on a lifetime. I regard this as a new beginning for my sexuality. I can not say Pia and the five other lovely women thank you enough for an unforgettable weekend!

Katharina, 29, a medical secretary, Vanlose: Hi Pia. Thank you for last. It was a stellar weekend. I've had one session with myself and I got orgasm, so you can believe I'm happy. Now I just need to build up a lot of energy so my sex life with my boyfriend gets really good, and my desire is there:-) You have really helped me on the way. Many warm greetings.

Birte, 42 years old, sexologist students, Søllerød: Regarding Vulva course 107: Hi Pia, THANK YOU for a very rewarding weekend. It is the best and greatest gift I have given myself. Feel like "real" woman. You have helped to give me this gift.

With your female warmth that I already sensed the phone, you created a safe and open atmosphere. There are few people who possess this heart-warming, and it is a beautiful gift that you give to your courses. Many people do not know it themselves, heart heat, some see it as a weakness, others suck it up. Us who know it, know what it is, what power there is in it, and dare to show up and give it. We also know that people can suck it out and stomp on it. Pia, it is very beautiful that you are in it and give it. : 0) THANKS. I wish you a nice day - the sun is shining now. : 0) Loving heat Berit

PS. I've got my first spray-orgasm this morning and it's a lovely radiance, I can take with me when I later on date. : 0)

Lisa, 52 years old, managerial employee, Nordborg: Hi Pia and the other wonderful students. Thanks for an educational weekend and good company! Thank you, Pia, because you are who you are and lets us share in your vast knowledge. I think it was an absolutely amazing beautiful healing weekend that I will never forget. It is still printed clearly on my hard drive and on my mind as something great, wonderful and life changing. I was at your course in January 07 in Copenhagen - and now we august.

I could like to learn your adult sekualterapi orgasm method to know by yourself to try it. My sex life and relationship with myself and my own body, I have always had problems with since I was sexually abused as a child. I have never been able to have an orgasm. Alm. therapy, massage and my own willpower has made me a long way down the road, but now I felt, however, that I had gone thoroughly stuck. I needed seriously for a change as soon as possible in my sex life. I needed to teach my body to know again and escape the past forever. To get healed my shame over my body and my sex. To do that, I had to replace my then sexuality with one that works better. Pia, your method works as the start of the process - a great catalyst. The course has changed my life significantly better. I have much pleasure from what you have taught me and use my pelvis and my Hitachi Magic Wand with great pleasure every day. You have shown me the way, so I'm out of my sexual isolation - and found my sexual partner - even my ideal partner - a wonderful boyfriend who enjoy sex as much as me - and I like my pelvic contractions during intercourse. I feel you have healed me sexually, Pia. Now I finally know what love and sexuality is, at its best. It is brilliant with orgasms and they become deeper and better every month. My girlfriend enjoys them too. What a happy sexuality you have created with me. I come back as a ghost on the course with you when there is more peace on so I can get even more tips and move on from there where I am then.

Pia, thank you for having the courage and the interest to keep these courses. Thank you for what you do for us women. There is a need for it in our society and I, who have been through your knowledgeable teacher-hands appreciate any rate your efforts. So go on - do not make up!

ATTENTION! Besides, I have talked very openly about your course and your orgasm school to others. Several were interested. I have often thought of you how wonderful you are, you have flaps apparently constantly open. I want an electric. another way to have you in my life, a power. else. Hot summer greetings and good late summer from Lisa

Cat Baloo, 51 years old, relaxation therapist / masseur / auxiliary nurse and psychotherapist students, Hellerup: Thanks for intense 3 × 5 hour course. I will mention the very best I got with me, and God knows that I have taken a long inlet (at least 3 years) before I, and I mean all of me, I was ready to participate.

From a virginal girl who could not be with her sexuality, not to be ashamed of the idea that others can see me as a sexual being, (I within myself allows me to be anything but a nun, madonna or almost virgin again after having been alone for 20 years with two children) that I must have a sex life, resulting in sounds and words and be able to talk about it.
I could great really like your approach to anatomy and physiology and your prior medical science, I am pretty sure conclusions about the body's hormonal-seksologiske functions and I learned much new despite my not inconsiderable knowledge itself.

To love myself have got the right meaning, verbatim and literally it is totally spiritual. IS it really as simple to do as the various alternative authors, eg .. Louise Hay says, look yourself in the mirror every morning and say "E .... I love you" and to do it.
It makes much more sense now to recognize sexuality as one of the four basic emotions, or life energy (Gestalt therapy) one of which is sexuality, the other 3 are happiness, sadness and anger.

I'm only just 51 and receive gifts of quality LIV. I thought this is great.
My joy and bliss temple, there had neither name nor sex, now called Cat Baloo and certainly get many more nicknames, so it is a signatory I hereby. In truth, clarity, love and healing. Cat Baloo

Anett, 48, physiotherapist and laughter coach, Roskilde: My warmest recommendation - Pias orgasm course is simply a gift for every woman - and man. Within Pias course, I wrote the following poem:
 
M E N
You've probably seen me as closed and shy
the truth is that I felt so wrong.
I should have been a boy - I knew that embryonic
For many years I lived as a nun in a convent.

Lack of self-esteem and celibacy hear enough together
worthlessness extinguished the flame of desire.
I let boys and men wear at the pain fire
I felt betrayed - and could certainly not be called wild.

As a teenager, there were often tears on my pillow
"Where are you lean" - in the stomach was a knot.
Everywhere I saw girls with nice tits
I did not - and did not notice my desires.
The conviction was: all men will have bulging women
a delicious ass was not enough to make me a winner.

I can see I chose men, the difference was great
age-wise or intellectually - they needed all a mother.
I dare not be a woman, the matter was clear:
If I am your mother, would you be my father?

I can not accuse myself of having been "easy"
but I got when demystified the myth of the Negroid limb.
Also lovely lovemaking I have noticed - lovely men I have known
and I think they all heaven sent.

One taught me to appreciate my beautiful body
I hold now of my breasts - dare go with low-cut top.
Now I enjoy to dress up and go as a woman
the courses I learned: find your inner goddess.

My feminine force is taking me to me more and more
life is wonderful - and it's here, it's snowing!

The men in my past a lot of my learned
I practice now is to open my heart.
I am pleased to see that it tickles in my tummy
when my partner and I are exploring the gift of love.

Now it's as end up saving more men
I am ready to be admired, spoiled and to give me going.
Intoxicating love - life is a breeze
where my partner dares to be man - and woman is me.

The poem is from the still unpublished collection of poems: "Life is a gift - after all"!

After Pias course poem has given a whole new dimension for me and I would recommend everyone - women and men - to enrich their lives with a course with Pia. I will give Pia right that it's in our culture that you men should know all about that satisfy us women - and we women expect you to know this and think "he should know, then, how I want it" . But how can he know it if we do not tell him that? And if we do not even know - (did you know that our erogenous zones are changing all the time - well, I did not know it).

It really dawned on me how many twisted ideas about sex, we just think is the truth. Let each of us find out how we can enjoy our sexuality by examining our own body. When we meet, we can - as Pia so well puts it - become each other's masturbation assistants - find optimal enjoyment - and do not believe in the distorted notion that the only thing that pigeons are one big common orgasm climax. Let us come together as women and men - as adults playmates and enjoy the gift we are born with - namely our sexuality. Thank you, Pia, for your passionate commitment in offering us all a life of orgasmic pleasure!

Alberte, 35 years old, Aarhus: When my boyfriend first time said that the solution to my problem could be an orgasm course, I was incredibly shocked. For I had good enough never gotten an orgasm, and it did not work like they were close, but something like "Grisse-fy" would I not help. But over half a year, he persuaded me thankfully, and when I had spoken on the phone with a happy and heartwarming Pia, I was suddenly fired up to get going on the course. It was nice that the guys had to be with the video-viewing Friday night, so they knew what would happen, and it gave a calm for me to know in advance what it was I was going to be thrown out in the next few days.

It was an amazing experience to be able to talk openly with other women about everything now moved by thoughts and uncertainties about sexual issues head on one, and Pia were good and loving to listen and understand. But despite this secure base, now was still a small lump in my stomach when we came to the more practical part of the course. I felt in good hands, but was still afraid of being disappointed. Just imagine if I still could not get orgasm, imagine if I was a huge failure! Luckily there was room for all the time to say what you thought. All the time was Pia who with good advice and comforting words.

Great was my surprise now anyway since my whole body twitched, and Pia lovingly stated that as I had experienced my first orgasm, and I finally had to go on. I could not comprehend that it was really successful for me, which of course was such a uorgastisk woman! But it really happened - several times and it has been nice many times since. For Pias advice and ideas work, from not knowing how it there mystical orgasm all talking about feel, I can now continue for six hours at a time..
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Saturday.Alberte, 35 years old, Aarhus: When my girlfriend first time said that the solution to my problem could be an orgasm course, I was incredibly shocked. For I had good enough never gotten an orgasm, and it did not work like they were close, but something like "Grisse-fy" would I not help. But over half a year, he persuaded me thankfully, and when I had spoken on the phone with a happy and heartwarming Pia, I was suddenly fired up to get going on the course. It was nice that the guys had to be with the video-viewing Friday night, so they knew what would happen, and it gave a calm for me to know in advance what it was I was going to be thrown out in the next few days.

It was an amazing experience to be able to talk openly with other women about everything now moved by thoughts and uncertainties about sexual issues head on one, and Pia were good and loving to listen and understand. But despite this secure base, now was still a small lump in my stomach when we came to the more practical part of the course. I felt in good hands, but was still afraid of being disappointed. Just imagine if I still could not get orgasm, imagine if I was a huge failure! Luckily there was room for all the time to say what you thought. All the time was Pia who with good advice and comforting words.

Great was my surprise now anyway since my whole body twitched, and Pia lovingly stated that as I had experienced my first orgasm, and I finally had to go on. I could not comprehend that it was really successful for me, which of course was such a uorgastisk woman! But it really happened - several times and it has been nice many times since. For Pias advice and ideas work, from not knowing how it there mystical orgasm all talking about feel, I can now continue for six hours at a time. So thank Pia, heartfelt thanks to you and Betty, for your wonderful knowledge, and the warm-hearted way, you give it to us other women who have so much need it. I will spread your lovely message that "an orgasm a day, that's the case", and will even live the future! You and your knowledge have already made my relationship, my self esteem and my sexuality better.

And so I want to say thanks again to you, Pia, for I have since been able to give myself so many wonderful orgasms thanks to what you have taught me! I very much hope to be able to come with you again and I will certainly send my girlfriend Morten - he also deserves to get something with all your wisdom.
Many hugs and loving greetings here from Aarhus from Alberte, who now has a laaaaaaaangt better sex life, and in fact all have got one with itself.

Heidi, 48, nurse, Gentofte: Thanks, many thanks for a course of very high professional standard and plenty of heart-warming. I was working with inner beliefs / attitudes to sexuality and are now seeing a greater spaciousness and freedom in myself. Tuition and own exercise in "craft" to have an orgasm was an amazing experience. Very beautiful - almost an initiation into it to be a whole woman.

I had given up on ever getting an orgasm, I am now very interested to experience it again and again ............ My partner was very happy to participate in video evenings, it provided a common starting point for future play with sexuality.

Rose, 38, tidskriftsredaktør, Charlottenlund: Having been on orgasm course at Pia is the best gift I've ever given myself. Already on the second day I felt bubbly, happy, female and attractive in a way I've never done before. I had it as a child to be in Heaven, and I was even happier at the thought that this was MY own Tivoli. Unfortunately, I had spent my youth to define my sexuality through men - in retrospect, probably the most stupid place to do it - instead of making it among like-minded women.

The course provided 5 exciting women and because Pia is so åbenhjertelig and caring were quickly created a safe atmosphere where we like the most natural thing in the whole world shared the most intimate experiences with each other. The course has made me feel that I have moved home in my own body and enjoy it as never before. A side-effect is a lot of wonderful orgasms. Thank you, Pia, for your lovely creature.

Susanne, 35, clerk, Aarhus C: Pia long relationship that goes still not a day when I did not send you a very warm and loving thought! The weekend in Aarhus and meeting with you has definitely been crucial for me and my life, and I am deeply grateful. A gift you have been! A gift with tools I can use, and I am in full swing: Pelvic floor exercises almost every day !, o time (as I call it) several times a week. I bought a massager (not Betty's model, but it goes) And I come now! Consciously! Just like any small, soft, warm waves. But they are there, and I know they will be bigger and better. I am more confident with my pussy now, experiencing and constantly discovering so many new, strange, changeable.

I read a lot of books on both sexuality and personal development. I have an appointment at hypnotherapist George Eckert. Yes, that happens a lot, and it's so great. I am touched and happy and proud. I will not give up this time, and it feels obviously also scary and demanding. I feel a little scared and left to myself once in a while. And miss your guidance, your warmth and your insight. I wish you lived in Texas instead of just teaching here occasionally.

My pussy has been given a name. It's called La Rubia, it is Spanish and means the light / redheads. It can also mean a small reddish river fish and an Arab gold coin! The clitoris is El rubi, ruby! Si! - Once again thanks to you, Pia. You are great!

Dorthe, 35, a translator, Hillingdon: I was on a wonderful course with a bunch of lovely tøzer that I now feel connected to. My sex life has become so much better, not just my sex life but my whole life, it is of great importance in many areas. It's as if I've got more energy, more profit, I'm happier, also happier both for myself and for my husband! It's as if he suddenly love me completely wild and deep - every day! It's better than I ever dreamed of. (Well it with "every day" means that he shows it every day for example. With kisses, hugs and just the way he looks at me with Christmas lights in øjnene..skøøønt. And the physical sex, yes it is just fat and more often than before .... what is it in extent, yes but that is a few times a week with him.

But I have fun even only a few times a week for example. when he is not home! Whether it is enough? yes, it suits me perfectly. I have three children and many others. to look for). But this wonderful life I have now, due to the lovely course. It is because. Of the fatter sex that he and I are like the honeymoon period again!

Heidi from Austria, educator and therapist, Lyngby: I am a woman of 44 years who has been sexually frustrated in practically all my life. I grew up in a Catholic environment in Austria, where the sexual morality is deeply oppressive. At age 12, I had an operation to be with the boys, however, I felt that this was very wrong. My mother told me that I should never go home with a child and that I would only be able to get the pill when I was 16. I had secret affairs behind her back and I could not separate love from sex. I saw that I could get through sexuality the familiar lack of love. My guys were 5-7 years older and I was really spent. I got a feeling that I needed to satisfy the guys to be worthy to be loved. Although I currently have been married to the same man for 21 years, I have always had a feeling that there was something being taken from me when we rare times had sex. And it's certainly not something my husband's fault. It was just my past that haunted so many years. I saw early on in our marriage that I was sexually attracted to one of our mutual friends. This made me so afraid of what it could not lead. I could risk being in love, and it may under no circumstance happen. Ergo, I have closed completely by the point of being sexually attracted and having fantasies, for they were the moral dirty and reprehensible in itself. Just having fantasies about other men gave me a feeling of being unfaithful. When my husband and I had sex, I had mostly overcome myself, because I felt no desire anymore. I could not indulge myself and was mostly all in my head with some practical tedious chores. I found out that I in general had difficulty gi 'and receive. We were often annoyed at each other and I was thinking in terms of getting divorced. However, I knew deep inside that my problem is about to come home in myself and that a divorce would not be the solution to my problem. I knew that home was just inside me, and that my attitude towards myself should become somewhat more appreciative and loving. Through several years of therapy, where I mostly only dedicated myself to the head, I found out that the home is located inside the body. So luckily I found the way to Pia Struck, who is very trustworthy and understanding, and she is good at creating a safe, well and totally anxiety-free room.

Her video evening and weekend workshop has turned my views on sexuality 100%. All my guilt and shame disappeared forever on a weekend. I feel I got the right attitude to my own body. I have started to take responsibility and find out through masturbation and self-love, what I really like, and I consider my vulva as beautiful and divine rather than dirty and disgusting. I have had some great conversations with my partner, who also helped to video tonight. Conversations that has loosened up to let their imaginations any more room and space. I have again been attracted to myself and my partner and have got the faith back .. By ha 'let my head, I have come deeper in my body and I often find that I am so touched by the rediscovered joy that my tears syringes of rørthed middle of lovemaking. I have come in the visual and emotional contact with Ananda temple (my vulva), which is one of the most beautiful existence and on top of that so close to myself. At the same time I got myself a new playmate, namely Betty Dodsons lovely massager and an excellent dildo, which can also be used to make pelvic floor exercises. I have taken my sexuality in my own hands and my inner child has longed to look happy and playful. My husband's greatest pleasure is when he sees and experiences myself in full enjoyment. He feels that it is not entirely his responsibility anymore, that I will be satisfied. My tears, he takes no longer in person and are able to accommodate them. It has sometimes been a common game. Other times we play each with ourselves. We have entered into our own reality, which is emerging and inspiring. It is NEVER too late. Pia, I am truly grateful for what you have given me, and I really wish that many women find the way to you !!! You are competent and capable - and an unusually lovely person even! .

Anette, 41, office manager, Husum: Approximately A year ago my friend fell over an article in a newspaper which said that "Now Danish women themselves." It shall include women stood in line to masturbate because there were more women living without a husband. My friend sent me the article and wrote about I was fresh to the course. I thought it was wonderful she sent me the article, for we are reasonably familiar with each other. Nevertheless, it has taken a year before it worked out and I got put a date on. We signed up for the weekend in March. It was with a tickle in my stomach that I went. We were 6 for video evening, two men and four women. Pia welcomed us and introduced us to the 3 movies. It was not long before I was relaxed.

We saw three very different films, inter alia, female genital mutilation, 'How we are arranged, what we call our vulva if it has a name, women who have never had an orgasm and how they got one. It was quite fascinating, because I've never seen a woman - and so many - have orgasms. One thing that still stands out in my memory, is an elderly woman who said that after she got home from Betty Dodson course could masturbate in bed while her husband was reading a book !! Very catchy, or perhaps reflecting the family Denmark. The last film was largely about how women could and got orgasms. It was just before I had had enough, he was satisfied, but the film could probably not have been shorter, so we missed tips along the way. After approximately 5 hours with video, it was time to say goodbye to the others. Unfortunately it turned out that I was the only one on the course of the weekend, so it was canceled - and me, who had hoped for it. It was moved to 3 weeks. In a way, it might very well as I knew then, what I was getting myself into but I knew that no participant (s).

On Saturday I met gaily. It turned out that there was only one girl and then Pia. Fortunately, it turned out that the girl and I fit incredibly well together. The first awhile, we got rid quite relaxed and got chatted a lot of things through, and that our lack of orgasm was not due to our psyche, but that was the reflection of our upbringing and especially minting from our mothers. Both the girl and I had tried to experiment with various dildos, but it had proved unsuccessful. We also got a thorough introduction to how breathing and pelvic floor exercises can help one to get better orgasms. After a while it was modesty were thrown and we had to take our clothes off to look at genitals. We got a mirror each to admire our genitals, incredibly so beautiful and different from each other they are. Pia turned first her and then it was our turn ... to experiment and look at our genitals. I also had my period, but Pia said, we are the women. We tried simultaneously dildo wand barbell and afterwards a dildo meter, to see how good our PC muscle was or could be trained up to be. In the evening we ate together, and we were all giddy and did lots of fun. Among other things, that we had been to o-training, might our friends think when peace training. We got a lot of fun out before we got our table to eat lovely Turkish food. After a few hours we said goodbye to each other, I - full of impressions.

The last day of the course was now begun. After hugs and kisses and how we thought Saturday was gone, we embarked on gold. I initially was not so sure that orgasm would come, but we were told that we should give the little girl a task. She had to keep track of that we tightened up, exhausted breath, put the sound on, used the hips and constant clit stimulation ... while we should just give us the go. It tickled in the body, my legs shook, and Pia "helped" us on me by saying, come out, you look so beautiful when you groan ... And finally it was there. Intoxicating and as a waterfall. Orgasm and water-potion. Great. We should see ourselves in the mirror, see your eyes and they were totally blank. I think we got 3-4 more during the afternoon. I was completely finished and tired in a good way. Imagine being so familiar with each other, show and tell about one's inner and know that it never gets beyond the four walls. It's great. Pia said that now I was "the lady of the lake". When I left the course, I felt that everyone could see that I had gotten my life orgasm, and smiled at all, for they only knew.

Pia, thanks for your course, you were lovely and just so sweet to be with. We hope to see you soon again. Either for course 2 or 3, or maybe we should make a trip to the Swinger club. Love Anette,

Helene, 47, physiotherapist, Odense: Who would have known that a single weekend in Zealand in June 2004 go and change my life so drastically that today I refer to everything that has happened before this weekend as "my old life," and everything afterwards as "my new life" !!? ..

I have unfortunately lived most of my sexual life without much appreciation and enjoyment - both in relation to partnersex and sex with myself. Partnersex hurt and it seemed most of all abhorrent and masturbation, I found in one or another kind of boring, disgusting and not very rewarding pure enjoyment purposes.

The reason for my very asexual life I was, however, if nothing else, pretty sure had to hang unmistakably to the fact that as a child I was sexually abused by my father; but this knowledge brought me unfortunately just wide, because I did not know how I should grab my problems himself, and perhaps even less where I had to get help for that something incalculable project.

When my partner for eight years left me in the spring of 2004, in favor of another woman, I woke up for real. Although he swore to me that it was not due to our dysfunctional sex life, I did not believe him, and I wanted now, more than ever, to get to the bottom of this sexual mess - I would learn to enjoy sex - and in that context obviously also be free of pain as they for me to see, was as great a hindrance as my psychological problems.

I searched desperately answer at all possible as impossible therapists, but without success, until one day I was surfing the web, hoping to find the philosopher's stone. And it did! My search brought me in all its randomness to you, dear Pia - and your orgasm academy - and everything that would prove to be the start of "my new life" ...

After talking with you on the phone and booked a time to an orgasm course in June, I felt already much better. You gave me from the outset a wonderful feeling to be've come to the right place, and already from the time I was not a moment of doubt that this course would eventually become my salvation.

In selvforkælelsens spirit, I packed my best clothes in my best suitcase, as the day of departure came, and set me eagerly off to Copenhagen, for a few hours to accommodate me at one of the city's best hotels. Even the weather was perfect, I remember - the sun shone for me from a cloudless sky, as if to confirm me that this weekend was very special.

And that was it - and just as fully as I had hoped for! Video evening on Friday was interesting and informative, and felt like the perfect introduction to what was to take place on Saturday and Sunday.

I was obviously upset when I Saturday should tell you, Pia, and my fellow students about my somewhat sad relationship with my own sexuality, but it felt nonetheless quite right and natural to start the day off on the way - putting things on the table, so as better to make a fresh start - a little like when you start to clean up before you begin to clean: one can not get all the way in with the dirt if there is everything too many things in the way!

After completing the course Saturday, I was so inspired and turned on that I took directly from the restaurant and home in the hotel room, where I found the lack of a better electric toothbrush back and masturbated - and enjoyed it - for the first time in my life !!

Sunday I could scarcely wait to get my clothes off and get started - did well at the time had a pretty good sense of the beautiful, I had to wait; when an electric toothbrush had been able to do that for me the night before, I think there was no doubt that I really would reach peaks of pleasure in the company of the vibrator of all vibrators! And it did! - I got my first orgasm ever on Sunday afternoon in June !! - And a few pieces or five more even.

I met only positive reactions when I left on Funen, proudly told, and bluntly, about the weekend's events. My surroundings were also proud of me, and even quite awed by the courage they thought it might have been asked of me. So not only that the course had "boosted" me and my sexuality and my self-esteem - my friends continue where you left off, Pia.

In the wake of all this, I also got the courage, a few months later to tell my sister about the sexual abuse - some thirty years after it took place! But better late than never !; my sister was supportive and caring, and it has undoubtedly been crucial to the much closer relationship we have today!

I sought also include a gynecologist, shortly after I got home, to get a "second opinion" in relation to an opinion I had of one gynecologist before I was on the course. He had told me that I naturally was very narrow "decorated", which therefore inevitable degree gave me the pain that I experienced during intercourse. The gynecologist who examined me the second time around, told me, to my great joy, but in total contradiction with the first that I was fully usually created !! This was, besides, also fully consistent with what I now had seen on the course and beyond - it all had the simply rooted in my sexual frustrations, and was in no way physically conditional !!

In "my new life" I have also been so "lucky" to find me a wonderful partner who I share a great sex life and many other nice with.

Thanks Pia, for all that you and your great work has meant to me. Unlike all other therapists you understand namely that "learning by doing" is the only thing that matters!

I think it's remarkable that the established system, their own doctor, psychologist and others, could not help myself - I have a feeling of being sent from one deal to another, and I do not really know that they have known what to do with me. The problem, according to them, was either in my head or something purely anatomical between my legs, you could not do anything about! Of course there were some of my problem "in my head", but I have always had a feeling that I probably needed some expert guidance in sheer "practical needlework" but how, you ask her doctor more about it? !!!

My recommendation to others in the same situation is that you have to do outreach. I'm just happy that I even had extremely much energy and willpower last year to contact you, Pia! The next time that I am with my doctor / gynecologist, I have some of your orgasm course brochures with and I'll talk warmly to them about all the good that I have gained from being on orgasm course.

I will soon return to more of the good things you have to NUTSHELL! In other words, I am pleased to be repeat in six months. Huge hug from Helene

Helena, 34, Odense: A free woman ...

When you are a free woman? It is you when you are free to choose what you want. Choose yourself, choose your own sexuality - go on orgasm course and become a more free man!

Become a master in its own house, or rather: BECOME QUEEN IN THEIR TEMPLE !! Ignorance, shyness, myths, modesty, falsehoods, societal norms, religion and many other emotional reasons, that many women do not know themselves and their own sexuality. Pia Struck knows what she is talking about in his courses: - Use it or lose it! Use your sexuality or lose it. It is like learning a new dance. It seems a little awkward at first, but how wonderful it is when the training is successful and provide many wonderful orgasms. There are winners on both sides - both men and women !! So go ahead! Love Helene

Helene, 22 years, Uni student, Frederiksberg: Minutes of my experience of Pias Orgasm Course in February 2005 written on August 1.

It's probably five years ago, I greeted Pia Struck first time. Her friends and I used looong time to go and giggle about what such an orgasm course well could accommodate? I met Pia again on a health fair at the beginning of February this year. Since I had all had quite a long time to pull myself together to hear her lecture - my friends thought it was enormously sexy that I went to the lecture, they dared not even * smiles *. After only an hour Pias company where she had come all the way around the essential and the hottest topics in sex, I had already decided that I was going on a course, what the cost. And already gave her little tricks off: After just five minutes stood a few yoga teachers and baked on me and my lovely guy at home got to feel what I had learned about Kegel exercises ...

My approach to the course were as follows: My boyfriend and I had just celebrated our fifth anniversary. We are each other's first real lovers and lovers. Our sex life (actual intercourse) has always been in disarray, first due inexperience, since because I over 2½ years lost the urge almost completely due my COC and a blend of disease and stress. First, in the summer of 2004 when I stopped with the COC, came my desire again at full tilt, and with the desire came all my old fantasies and ideas to be tested. Then we started the search for a way in which I could learn to have an orgasm during intercourse rather than the alternate clitoral orgasm afterwards. The course was the right place to learn more. The hardest and most groundbreaking for me was actually to call Pia and report me to the course 14 days later (it just could not go fast enough). Afterwards it was all easy and comfortable enough!

During the course I felt amazing clarified. For video evenings on Fridays, we were seven participants of both sexes. Participants easy shape and videos in the factual content did that all right quickly got rid of shyness and was asked questions and made comments. I got put many things in place during the evening, especially on the female anatomy. And then we got incidentally homework!

On the course itself, we ended up being three participants. The other two girls are mid-40s and mid-60s, so we were three generations with very different problems and desires. Really lovely instructive for all of us! Saturday we learned to know each other over a cup of tea and got answered an infinite number of questions. Then we had "pussy distinguishing" where we admired our base and compared them with photographs to learn how differently women are created.

Pelvic floor muscles were also just checked with a perinæometer (pelvic strength meter) - it was pretty funny. Then we learned massage the genitalia, either as pure indulgence without direct sexual content or as a prelude to love with himself. The day ended with that we went out and ate together. The entire first hour of the restaurant, I went around with his head in the clouds on top of the experience. Gu 'was it brazenly lie there and get orgasms together the other girls, but at the same time it was very sober. There was a "medsøster-like" atmosphere, just as I imagine that they freaked 1970s must have been.

On Sunday, we can boost the exercises. We came through breathing exercises, voice exercises, to find the G-spot, Kegel exercises during sex, reviewing a lot of sex toys and then we rehearsed multi orgasms of gold medals. Neither did Pia the invitation to enter: Introduction to anal sex, swinger clubs, as well as a little advice about erotic dominance and S / M.

It was quite sad to say goodbye at the restaurant Sunday evening. Two of us went on in the city. After having danced, conversed and flirted until late into the night with the other café guests, a thought struck me: "I have become a woman." All my self-image changed in an instant. It is without doubt the most important course weekend gave me: It has made my sexuality to a completed part of me, made me think of myself as a "whole" being. When I need to describe how I now feel, is the best (sadly cliché-filled) word I can use that "I have come home" (in myself). Since I have felt as an equal among adults of all ages and I am told that my charisma has changed a lot, even though it was quite strong in advance. The short version of what you learn on Pias Orgasm Course boils down to five words: "Beware - You develop you!" - With Pia's own expression, I cast my "fig leaf" away.

Within a few months I have become completely clear about myself, my girlfriend and our relationship. I used the course as a springboard, along with him, to live out the fantasies I / we always have been carrying around. We have participated in two hands-on courses (not Pia Struck) about the female ejaculation (spray orgasms). I have jumped out as bisexual, we have had a girl into bed, and we have been in swinger club once. We have started to sniff S / M (the teacher). And then, incidentally, I learned to strip in the middle of exams.

Ulla, 34, engineer, Loegstoer: Dear Pia, 1000 thanks for your loving and knowledgeable way to guide us through orgasm course. You managed to shoot many prejudices and concerns lower at the first meeting. On Friday night, where we reviewed the 3 videos on Betty Dodsons method was for me sex education in the world. Think that I for 34 years has passed around without knowing "how does it actually." Masturbation is well known to me, I have always touched me even daily - so nothing new under the moon there ... but my orgasms were so-called "voltage orgasms," I had no idea. I did not know that orgasms can go from one to the other and it can last long ... My measly 30 second rush of happiness was made clear in relief.

Saturday at 13 hrs we were welcomed back by you, Pia, smiling and warm. You started with a name round at us 3 students, and it turned out pretty quickly that although we were very different both experience and human - then swung we pretty much knew right away - and the laughter sounded loud from the 4th floor when we compared our experience. There was created a very intimate atmosphere where we openly spoke about our problems with sex and orgasm and especially the joy of our own bodies. It was therefore very natural and easy to get naked in front of each other, also because we had seen it on video the night before. I was looking forward to getting up in front of magnifying mirror and looking curiously at my folder and my mind. My smile was huge when it dawned on me that my large labia were quite naturally and in its own way unique ... and said, I can fall in love with myself and my sex!

My astonishment was great when I discovered how weak my pelvic floor muscle was - all the Kegel exercises, I have made over time after birth, had not the slightest with Kegel exercises to do. But by measuring the sammenknibningen I became aware of the "buttons" I have to press and locate with the fingers, and how far up in the vagina, I must activate. Large homework waiting, but now I know at least what it takes. Saturday ended with self-massage of the genitals - and a trip on a Turkish restaurant with you Pia, was cozy, where you are however a nice warm man who dares to show your love and heart warming for all of us. We could all learn something! I wish there were more like you in the world!

After a long night's sleep, it was time for Sunday lessons. Expectant we threw the last prejudices and fig leaves with our clothes, and evaluated the two previous days' experiences with a cup of tea. We were all three quite agree that it was quite unique, so intense and natural atmosphere was, and we were looking forward to today's summary with respiration hoftevip, Kegel exercises and sound of ... (what a lot at once) Besides that, we should now work out the use of a vibrator on the clitoris, 'Magic wand' - "Harry Potter" as it was dubbed by us - have never experienced such strong vibrations. But we laughed a little and started to combine the learned exercises ... Just when it went into gear, introduced to Betty's barbell, not to compare with various dildos. It is completely different, but really good pinch on while pulling it out.

There came the learned exercises suddenly by itself, however, it was still hard for me to relinquish control completely and groan loudly. Thinking the Jutland modesty still lies buried deep ... but suddenly grabbed the laughter and an orgasm me ... think relinquishing control just a few seconds and then I managed to achieve what I came for - an orgasm. I managed not to ride the wave, but I was nevertheless continued to touch myself - when I was gripped by one of the other students, approached the sky. I have never seen anything like it. ... She really managed to put sound on and I could not take your eyes off her ... let my feet touch her feet as an acceptance of how cool it was to look at. Her eyes caught mine and a tear ran down my cheek as she came 3-4 times more, while I just smiled at her. It was so beautiful and intense to share it with her.

Thanks Pia, to let 'us up so much of our talk and laughter. It created the intense atmosphere where we let all the parades lower. Thank you for sharing your great warmth with us all and to ha 'been in my life at the right time and place. I will teach my orgasms and my body better to know and send you all a warm thought, every single time I succeed. Many happy orgasms too us all! Ulla

Karina, 45 years old, counselor, Vesterbro: Dear Pia, Thank you for a wonderful, informative, warm, wet, electric, power full and especially loving weekend - The share of the female sex bliss with other women, was one for me so great and heartwarming experience that I can not find words to describe the experience - it must simply be experienced! Even if your website contains stories about how an orgasm course is conducted and what it contains - as is the intensity and cohesion and confidence by being together and with each other's sex and orgasm some of the warmest and most intimate presence, I have to date experienced. It was skillfully done, Pia! You are worth to collect!

I have been put so many things into place inside myself, my attitudes to past sexual experiences, morals and assumptions about how other women looked and saw himself between the legs and, not least, how much we women have in common, on despite our external differences and life stories. It was like the angels sang: Life, light and bliss - total synergy.

Great praise is given - Pia. You are a wonderful woman, your radiance of love, care, wisdom, understanding, acceptance and compassion makes you feel safe, secure and confident in your company. You are truly a woman of style - beautiful and magnificent, straightforward and natural.

I'm still a little drunk after the weekend. I'm tired in a good way, relaxed and at ease. People say that I'm happy today, and I am also - a little more than usual - several have asked what I've done over the weekend - but I do not want to see their reactions today, so I'm waiting to skip the bomb and tell what I have been doing until I come out of my universe again - I enjoy my condition and has no track desire to share it with outsiders today. I sit and smile to myself, while in periods are small gip from my nether regions - adorable little flush of lust quivering and an expectation that there maybe more. And I can promise her to do - she will never be disappointed more! Sweet Pia, we have to talk again. All my love Karina

Lone, 33, a primary school teacher, Sydsjælland: Orgasm Training Weekend in sexual therapist Pia Struck, January 2005. It is a bit of sadness that I say goodbye to the four other women and Pia, who I have shared this weekend's experiences with. We stand outside the local restaurant in the Copenhagen evening, give each other a hug, smile and say encouraging to each other: "Good luck in the future!". As we go separate ways, I think about how it all started ...

It was with tickling in the stomach that I met up Friday night with my boyfriend for video evening Pias 20 sqm. therapy room at Vimmelskaftet. It was packed full of people and we sat near the chairs, the sofa, the armchair and the smart "floor chairs," which we five women also would be allowed to sit in during the weekend orgasm training course. Pia was smiling and wanted us welcome. The evening was now devoted to a video marathon, where we had to get acquainted with Betty Dodsons orgasm training.

I peered eagerly into the crowd after the women who were to participate in this weekend's course. Here was a mixed audience; young and old. It also gave me a picture of that people think that sexuality is an important area of their lives and relationships. I had long gone with a feeling that I was the only Danish woman who could not have an orgasm. I had never dared to talk to any of my friends about it, nor with any of the boyfriends I'd had. What was an orgasm, how did it feel? Masturbation was not something I was talking to someone about. - An activity I had tried to do something about the periods, because I very well knew, through the literature I had read about orgasm, it was the way forward. I suppose I have always had an expectation that I would meet "the prince on the white horse" that could give me an orgasm, so I did not even had to be confronted with my sex! Now I had to turn met a guy who talked openly about sex, and through the time we had known each other, I developed an awareness that I had to take responsibility for my own sexuality and awareness of my body.

Saturday I met up early and went up the stairs with a girl, who had also been to the video tonight. Pia was busy getting ready for us, and when the church bell rang outside in, at 13:00, we were all sitting together in a circle sitting in our "floor chairs" with a mug of steaming fragrant tea. We were all very excited, and as the hours wore on, we were each other's confidential. For me personally, it was very interesting and instructive to hear about the other women move reasons to get on the course. We were very different: Tanja 25 had never had an orgasm and been in a relationship for 4 years. She told me that she was bored in her sex life. She had a wide girlfriend crowd, she could talk openly about sex and orgasm. Anette 32 was tired of doing to the "Service Ladies" in bed, an expression which aroused great enthusiasm in our group because we could know ourselves in the expression. She told me that she had an orgasm with her boyfriend by klidre her clitoris, but she had a hard time, he could feel that she touched herself during intercourse. Agnetha at 44 was Swedish, single and had signed up for the course to learn to know yourself better and learn more orgasms in a row. Lena at 39 had given birth to four children. Her marriage was off course and she had, in consultation with her husband, decided to sign up for the course. She had never even seen or examined his genitals. And then there was me, Lone of 33 who were in doubt about what an orgasm was and whether I had had an orgasm. We talked about many facets about sexuality and the way we saw ourselves in relation to our body.

After several hours of conversation Pia announced that now we undress and put our bath towel from the floor chair. We stood in our every nook and took Shy clothes. Before we saw us had Pia took the dress off, put the lamp back and up the mirror. So we sat back in the circle, naked and looked at Pia, who are blatantly began to talk about her sex. For videoaftnen day before we had seen how the course would proceed, and now we were even and were curious to see how we looked and how the others looked. Some did not know where the urethral opening sat, some went to great lengths to cut and shave his sex, others not, some had a name for her sex, others not. We were very different, but we praised each other, and all were questioning and curious.

At the end of the day pulled Pia a big box forward with sex toys. It caused great mirth and chatter went merrily. The time was well over six before we were finished and had gotten over my clothes on. We were going down to the local restaurant to eat together, and while we ate good food, we were twisted and turned many of the ideas we had in connection with that we had volunteered for the course. We had extended our borders together and built a strong cohesion, yes I would almost call it a woman together - at the risk of sounding like a feminist! At home waiting for my girlfriend very tense, and a bottle of red wine, I told what I had experienced. Before I went to bed, I read the instruction papers that Pia had given us for that lesson. I was very curious as to what Sunday would bring me the insight.

Sunday I come running up the stairs, because I could not find a parking space. I hasten to throw boots and jacket before I step into the room. Here we know the routine from yesterday: floor chairs stand in a circle and is inserted mugs and tea forward. To build the confidentiality again from yesterday, calls Pia us in turn to tell what had happened since yesterday, if someone had "trained" themselves and we had comments on the papers we had to read. Some had masturbated, some had had sexual intercourse, others had not done anything, one had been in a coffee shop in the morning to eat brunch and read on homework. After a few hours we are ready to move forward in the process, and Pia says we have to take our clothes off. Today we have the energy to look at each other, not just be shy and look down at the floor. Comfortably reclined up our "floor chairs" we are each assigned a mirror, a vibrator, a dildo "Barbell" and oil as needed. Now we learn to massage our gender. Pia move slowly, and we are all very concentrated. We aer, nulrer, clamps, massaging and clap while we laugh together when flying funny comments through space. The mood is light and effortless. We are in the process of learning about the three techniques: "Kegel exercises, hoftevip and sound on the breath" as Pia repeatedly repeats. We learn to use the vibrator alone and then with "barbell". We are five very concentrated women, the windows fog up and the room echoes of high and deep breathing sounds. Several women achieve orgasm, and Pia stops us up along the way so we can see and learn from each other.

I've never seen a woman have an orgasm, it's beautiful and it's a great experience to be here in this room that exudes intimacy, and get a glimpse of how other women express their sexuality.

We now have all got some tools we can choose to use active when we must learn to love ourselves, and love the woman we are. "Remember now that I have homework for the next six months!" Says Pia. "Put two hours three times a week where you treat yourself, spend time on your sexuality and masturbate your way to orgasm. An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away "fairs Pia and we laugh.

As I go home Sunday night during the winter of evening, I hover easily. I am saturated with impressions from an exciting and eventful weekend. Now I know what it's like to have an orgasm, and that I am not alone in all the many emotions that I daily go and grapple with.

Mille, 29, educator, Copenhagen NV: Dear Pia, I also say thank you for a lovely weekend as I am wildly happy (-;

I've got opened up a new and very lovely part of me by myself. It's just the beginning of a lot of wonderful experiences and I look forward to exploring myself even more. You are a talented, deep and competent therapist who with love and understanding makes you feel welcome and at ease. It is extremely important that at such a course feel that all feelings and reactions are welcome and I think you managed to create the feeling in us!

One's sexuality is inseparable from the rest of one's emotions and for my part, it has sparked a lot of other things I was not able to verbalize and has not been as aware of this before now! It has been moving and overwhelming, but also very very nice to have deliberately made the difficult thing .... then it's easier to do something about it! Have a good Pia, I'm considering another course .... (-; so we definitely seen again - it is safe.

Sara, 35, artist, Gentofte: I called Pia on her ad in the newspaper Politiken. On Friday evening I arrived to video night with Pia. I was among the first and got the room on the couch. It was not as bad as I had imagined. Having ordered some food, we started with the videos. One was about to accept and appreciate our genitals. Another of individual sessions - a third of a weekend course for Betty Dodsons method around 'self-love', as she called it, and orgasm training.

I had extended my comfort zone that night, by standing by myself and others that this was something important, I needed to learn more about - and I was told that this is normal. After much consideration and reluctance, I called the next morning to Pia to join me for the weekend course on the same day. We started at noon with talk about experiences, problems and ideas in the field. After a long talk, I felt better and was ready to embark on some exercises that worked with the energy in the abdomen and hips, breathing etc.

Betty Dodsons method and advice we got home on writing clear and easily accessible.
Last day on the course I was well aware that we should go a step further in the process. I decided from home that what I had been through the previous days had already called enough courage that I was successful. We were shown different sex toys and talked about sex in many different ways. Pia is very open, straightforward and trustworthy.

I should be over and another modesty border as we afterwards began first to massage our genitals and then orgasm training where we all four simultaneously with massagers, dildos, tested the movements we learned yesterday and the correct breathing. Once we started, took over the exercise. I experimented and practiced in getting what we had learned to be a natural part of the game: Kegel exercises, hoftevip and sound on the breath along with vibrator and dildo movements and sexual imagination and energy work. I managed to get multiple orgasms. I screamed and it was nice hammer. The others welcomed warmly that I gave lynx and I was very proud and happy. We completed the course both evenings eating together. It was nice. I highly recommend this course to anyone who wants to learn how to have an orgasm or just be better to get it - it strengthens confidence - considerably.

Rosa, 53, librarian, Køge: Hi Pia. Well back in my comfortable everyday I will tell you a big thank you for an exciting, border AND boundary expanding orgasm weekend. Transboundary because I really overcame some internal barriers to myself and my own modesty and grænseudvidende because it was wonderful to discover that the world has so many more opportunities to act and be together than we normally get to experience.
It was BIG and VERY VERY NICE.

Thank you for your beautiful way of being. You took us by the hand and pulled us gently and carefully over the taboo borders, quickly got us to relax and let go, had created an atmosphere that was to bear, in the midst of all that overwhelming. And no, we had fun! I have rarely laughed so much as this weekend. I also cried a little, but it was good enough, it would just out, and now it's gone!

Where there are many opportunities to realize themselves if we just open up and dry, and where life can be big and beautiful, if only we dare throw the narrowing standards for "good and proper behavior" and all the limiting taboos overboard !

The very finest at the weekend was the wonderful natural and straightforward way, we could be together, stark naked and completely free and shameless, the great truism, we considered each other and ourselves, showed each our vulva forward, observed and commented on them and their great diversity among themselves, the way we were lined up with our massagers, dildos mm and rehearsed for making love to ourselves / love ourselves. It as to the degree seen as taboo, forbidden, hidden, non-existent in the public domain, was suddenly part, central, as it was all about, and it just seemed completely natural, totally natural. It was a big relief. It was also a great relief and almost revolutionary for me to discover that I am not abnormal / warped / wrong, because I'm not in a position to exert a tremendous orgasm in 5-10 minutes! There has dropped a large stone from my heart. Perhaps it is in fact the most important thing I learned during this weekend: it is the process and not the end goal, which is the most important, and that this process would be - yes even MUST - take time and time and time and that it is about enjoying and enjoy and enjoy along the way, not working hard like crazy to achieve the great goal in a short time. The purely technical side of things was also quite nice. I learned some techniques that I have already started to practice on. In the bus this morning I made Combined drag / drop and input / exhalation. You can do well, even though there is a lot of people around one, and then I get maybe a little faster track of breathing and pelvic floor exercises, so they will be automated. I have also started to say goodnight and good morning to my sweet vulva and talk nicely to her. We'll be fine with each other!

Among all the events we experience during our lives, there are some that are more seminal and entrepreneurial than others, some are truly rocks. This weekend is one of them. Thank you, dear Pia. Love, Rosa

Sanne, 31, chaos pilot, Fredensborg: Hello beautiful Pia on sexskolen! Already the first day of Orgasm training course I felt comfortable at Pia's warm personality. It was nice for me to listen to the other two participants' sexual history and understand that it was not only me who was reluctant sexually and had bad memories.

When we later in the day were naked, I had many feelings that came to the surface. I had long struggled with hatred of the body, so it was hard to show it to others. But Pia let it be ok to have those feelings and remain naked. When I saw my now beautiful vulva, in the mirror, I was critical, I do not think I was beautiful and I was afraid to analyze its various details. When Pia said I was beautiful, I did not believe her, but she appeared to have said it so sincerely that I later began to wonder if there was something exciting between the legs of me. I would like to borrow the mirror and see again.

My homework was to fondle myself. I sat an hour of and had a frustrating and beautiful experience. I enjoyed more and more to look at myself in the mirror and, after giving up turning on sexually, I still got an orgasm. The next day was even better. Pia taught us to bring the body into the act when we practice "self-loving" and I'm not ashamed to say that I got my first public orgasm. It was a beautiful experience and the other women's presence felt supportive.

Since I came home from the course, I have had great phone sex with my husband who was abroad. I did not think I could turn on him more .. but I was wrong! I learned to turn on myself and therefore also on him at Pia's course. Now I can get excited sexually several times during a day, even just while I sit on the bus. I see it as my human duty to take time for an 'erotic date' with myself often. Thank you.

Babe, 55, an immigrant teacher, Køge: It's Monday October 2002. At the weekend I was at orgasm course at Pia Struck. It started with a group of about 10 men and women so 3 videos with Betty Dodson. We got through this a thorough introduction to Betty Dodsons method as for me it is absolutely brilliant. She is the first sex therapist in the United States who have realized that 'learning by doing' is the only thing that truly rocks - and Pia Struck is the only one of the kind here at home! Already Friday night videos and Pias additional information makes at least some of my limits and beliefs about sex. Already I felt renewed hope that my longtime sex-phobia and lack of sex drive could be changed.

Over the weekend we were 3 women besides Pia - which is every bit as good as Betty! Of course we had different sexual problems, or rather different sexual blockages, but it did not matter. Pia started very gently - we talked and talked and asked if everything related to sex - and it was great, too, because Pia talked about it all, as if it were completely everyday natural thing, what it also made should be! We talked and looked at all kinds of different sex toys, which certainly also has been one of my barriers.

The course was called 'orgasm training' and that was what it was in the end. But it was also a course on how to get started with sex, in giving themselves permission and more. All the time went Pia front, turned on itself, how we should do. On the way she did it all very natural and non-hazardous. A useful part of it all is the body-techniques we learned. Everything takes place in a lovely, fun and safe atmosphere - you laugh a lot, and it's all hot, hearty and unpretentious.

I can highly recommend this course - also for you women, who may well have an orgasm and having sex, because the course moves frontiers, and one consciousness of depths they never knew they even had!

For my part, I find that I, as a middle-aged woman has a new desire (I can feel the urge, yippee !!) will have more self-esteem, more energy, more charisma and, last but not least, get more desire to make love with my lovely man.

All women should experience this course and the effect of it. Do it! - Even if you do not dare! I did not! It was not so bad!

Now it so to keep it all in just after Pia's instructions, and I will of course do everything. Otherwise I have to repeat the success with Pia. Finally a huge thank you to you who shared this course with me. And last of a big hug and thank you, Pia. See you certainly one day again and I look forward to. Sincerely babe.

Helene 42 years old, relaxation therapist, Nørrebro: Orgasm course in August 2002:
On the first day of the course met all a little shy up at the thought of the weekend program. The five women who had volunteered to orgasm course, was familiar with what the weekend would offer, since we all had been an introductory video evening where all Betty Dodsons ideas being presented.
The atmosphere was nice, comfortable and warm right from the start and that was not long before this forum free to talk about anything within the subject of sex and orgasm. It was very liberating experience. And when Saturday ended with everybody showed their wonderful, beautiful and very different vaginas forward, it felt like the most natural thing in the world.

Sunday stood at orgasm training. But first we had a little talk about how we had had it with yesterday's experiences. We agreed that it had been - no border, but rather grænseudvidende, - that our view of sex had taken on new dimensions. Things you thought you went alone, proved to be quite normal, myths about sex had been punctured and other facets of his shift one's curiosity.

Before the actual training started, showed Pia all his toys forward. Again it was liberating to be able to sit in this safe forum and ask naive to all the things you did not know a howling crap about. Pia has tried many facets of in many other branches of sexlivets diverse wood, and it was exciting to listen to and learn from. And when we have so knotted our comments and experiences to this, it was some very very fruitful conversations!

Now it was not just talk it all. All were given a vibrator and a dildo and then it was just about to get started. Under the guidance accumulated our sexual energy. There was no shyness, all were deeply focused on the task. Again a wonderful experience to lie there and moan with legs apart while orgasm rolls through one. And since we are after the break to wash our toys, none of us who gave it a thought that we all waded stark naked out in the hallway in the office building with massager and dildos in hands to wash them in the small adjoining kitchen late Sunday afternoon . It just felt natural.

I want these lines highly recommend everyone to participate in Pia Struck orgasm course. You get so many nugget home and a new insight into his life as orgasmic woman. And when Pia says you always just call if there's something you want to ask, so she believes it damn! Pia knows so much and understand what you're talking about. She manages to mirror back to you on a wonderfully warm way, then you will be really happy again.

Marisol, 37, coordinator of foreign aid, Vanlose: I am glad that I took on Pias video marathon followed by an orgasm training course, which ended last night. I have learned so much in these 3 days. I almost do not know where to start. I have learned so many new things - also very much about how we women are structured and how different we can be.
The very best of all was the fact the practical part. Breathing exercises, relaxation exercises and actual orgasm training.

I have an orgasm, but my problem is that I only get it in your sleep or coming out of sleep ... and that goes far between. I know I block when I'm awake.
On Pias course I've got some exercises that I can use to stimulate me to orgasm. Although I have not reached orgasm at the course, I know that I was very close. I have a much clearer sense of what orgasm is. It is not something mysterious that sneak up on me in my sleep. I know how I can move on.

For me the training much about finding my sexuality and have it come alive again. For too many years I have waited and hoped that the orgasm would come by itself, I just found the right partner. At times I have made exercises or masturbated to get on with my sexuality, but it was pretty boring.

After Pias course, I can see that what I have been missing a long time, is practical guidance on how I can masturbate. I have learned a lot, also about sex toys, but the best was the vibrator. Virtually all the times I have been licked my clitoris of a man, I think it was pretty boring, sometimes even uncomfortable. Therefore, I was even more skeptical of using something as "artificial" as a vibrator. Fortunately, I then got rid of the prejudice now. The first thing I did after I got home from the course was to put me to the computer and order the good vibrator on Betty Dodsons website!

Saturday. 13 we were welcomed back by you, Pia, smiling and warm. You started with a name round at us 3 students, and it turned out pretty quickly that although we were very different both experience and human - then swung we pretty much knew right away - and the laughter sounded loud from the 4th floor when we compared our experience. There was created a very intimate atmosphere where we openly spoke about our problems with sex and orgasm and especially the joy of our own bodies. It was therefore very natural and easy to get naked in front of each other, also because we had seen it on video the night before. I was looking forward to getting up in front of magnifying mirror and looking curiously at my folder and my mind. My smile was huge when it dawned on me that my large labia were quite naturally and in its own way unique ... and said, I can fall in love with myself and my sex!

My astonishment was great when I discovered how weak my pelvic floor muscle was - all the Kegel exercises, I have made over time after birth, had not the slightest with Kegel exercises to do. But by measuring the sammenknibningen I became aware of the "buttons" I have to press and locate with the fingers, and how far up in the vagina, I must activate. Large homework waiting, but now I know at least what it takes. Saturday ended with self-massage of the genitals - and a trip on a Turkish restaurant with you Pia, was cozy, where you are however a nice warm man who dares to show your love and heart warming for all of us. We could all learn something! I wish there were more like you in the world!

After a long night's sleep, it was time for Sunday lessons. Expectant we threw the last prejudices and fig leaves with our clothes, and evaluated the two previous days' experiences with a cup of tea. We were all three quite agree that it was quite unique, so intense and natural atmosphere was, and we were looking forward to today's summary with respiration hoftevip, Kegel exercises and sound of ... (what a lot at once) Besides that, we should now work out the use of a vibrator on the clitoris, 'Magic wand' - "Harry Potter" as it was dubbed by us - have never experienced such strong vibrations. But we laughed a little and started to combine the learned exercises ... Just when it went into gear, introduced to Betty's barbell, not to compare with various dildos. It is completely different, but really good pinch on while pulling it out.

There came the learned exercises suddenly by itself, however, it was still hard for me to relinquish control completely and groan loudly. Thinking the Jutland modesty still lies buried deep ... but suddenly grabbed the laughter and an orgasm me ... think relinquishing control just a few seconds and then I managed to achieve what I came for - an orgasm. I managed not to ride the wave, but I was nevertheless continued to touch myself - when I was gripped by one of the other students, approached the sky. I have never seen anything like it. ... She really managed to put sound on and I could not take your eyes off her ... let my feet touch her feet as an acceptance of how cool it was to look at. Her eyes caught mine and a tear ran down my cheek as she came 3-4 times more, while I just smiled at her. It was so beautiful and intense to share it with her.

Thanks Pia, to la 'us up so much of our talk and laughter. It created the intense atmosphere where we let all the parades lower. Thank you for sharing your great warmth with us all and to ha 'been in my life at the right time and place. I will teach my orgasms and my body better to know and send you all a warm thought, every single time I succeed. Many happy orgasms too us all! Ulla

Karina, 45 years old, counselor, Vesterbro: Dear Pia, Thank you for a wonderful, informative, warm, wet, electric, power full and especially loving weekend - The share of the female sex bliss with other women, was one for me so great and heartwarming experience that I can not find words to describe the experience - it must simply be experienced! Even if your website contains stories about how an orgasm course is conducted and what it contains - as is the intensity and cohesion and confidence by being together and with each other's sex and orgasm some of the warmest and most intimate presence, I have to date experienced. It was skillfully done, Pia! You are worth to collect!

I have been put so many things into place inside myself, my attitudes to past sexual experiences, morals and assumptions about how other women looked and saw himself between the legs and, not least, how much we women have in common, on despite our external differences and life stories. It was like the angels sang: Life, light and bliss - total synergy.

Great praise is given - Pia. You are a wonderful woman, your radiance of love, care, wisdom, understanding, acceptance and compassion makes you feel safe, secure and confident in your company. You are truly a woman of style - beautiful and magnificent, straightforward and natural.

I'm still a little drunk after the weekend. I'm tired in a good way, relaxed and at ease. People say that I'm happy today, and I am also - a little more than usual - several have asked what I've done over the weekend - but I do not want to see their reactions today, so I'm waiting to skip the bomb and tell what I have been doing until I come out of my universe again - I enjoy my condition and has no track desire to share it with outsiders today. I sit and smile to myself, while in periods are small gip from my nether regions - adorable little flush of lust quivering and an expectation that there maybe more. And I can promise her to do - she will never be disappointed more! Sweet Pia, we have to talk again. All my love Karina

Lone, 33, a primary school teacher, Sydsjælland: Orgasm Training Weekend in sexual therapist Pia Struck, January 2005. It is a bit of sadness that I say goodbye to the four other women and Pia, who I have shared this weekend's experiences with. We stand outside the local restaurant in the Copenhagen evening, give each other a hug, smile and say encouraging to each other: "Good luck in the future!". As we go separate ways, I think about how it all started ...

It was with tickling in the stomach that I met up Friday night with my boyfriend for video evening Pias 20 sqm. therapy room at Vimmelskaftet. It was packed full of people and we sat near the chairs, the sofa, the armchair and the smart "floor chairs," which we five women also would be allowed to sit in during the weekend orgasm training course. Pia was smiling and wanted us welcome. The evening was now devoted to a video marathon, where we had to get acquainted with Betty Dodsons orgasm training.

I peered eagerly into the crowd after the women who were to participate in this weekend's course. Here was a mixed audience; young and old. It also gave me a picture of that people think that sexuality is an important area of their lives and relationships. I had long gone with a feeling that I was the only Danish woman who could not have an orgasm. I had never dared to talk to any of my friends about it, nor with any of the boyfriends I'd had. What was an orgasm, how did it feel? Masturbation was not something I was talking to someone about. - An activity I had tried to do something about the periods, because I very well knew, through the literature I had read about orgasm, it was the way forward. I suppose I have always had an expectation that I would meet "the prince on the white horse" that could give me an orgasm, so I did not even had to be confronted with my sex! Now I had to turn met a guy who talked openly about sex, and through the time we had known each other, I developed an awareness that I had to take responsibility for my own sexuality and awareness of my body.

Saturday I met up early and went up the stairs with a girl, who had also been to the video tonight. Pia was busy getting ready for us, and when the church bell rang outside in, at 13:00, we were all sitting together in a circle sitting in our "floor chairs" with a mug of steaming fragrant tea. We were all very excited, and as the hours wore on, we were each other's confidential. For me personally, it was very interesting and instructive to hear about the other women move reasons to get on the course. We were very different: Tanja 25 had never had an orgasm and been in a relationship for 4 years. She told me that she was bored in her sex life. She had a wide girlfriend crowd, she could talk openly about sex and orgasm. Anette 32 was tired of doing to the "Service Ladies" in bed, an expression which aroused great enthusiasm in our group because we could know ourselves in the expression. She told me that she had an orgasm with her boyfriend by klidre her clitoris, but she had a hard time, he could feel that she touched herself during intercourse. Agnetha at 44 was Swedish, single and had signed up for the course to learn to know yourself better and learn more orgasms in a row. Lena at 39 had given birth to four children. Her marriage was off course and she had, in consultation with her husband, decided to sign up for the course. She had never even seen or examined his genitals. And then there was me, Lone of 33 who were in doubt about what an orgasm was and whether I had had an orgasm. We talked about many facets about sexuality and the way we saw ourselves in relation to our body.

After several hours of conversation Pia announced that now we undress and put our bath towel from the floor chair. We stood in our every nook and took Shy clothes. Before we saw us had Pia took the dress off, put the lamp back and up the mirror. So we sat back in the circle, naked and looked at Pia, who are blatantly began to talk about her sex. For videoaftnen day before we had seen how the course would proceed, and now we were even and were curious to see how we looked and how the others looked. Some did not know where the urethral opening sat, some went to great lengths to cut and shave his sex, others not, some had a name for her sex, others not. We were very different, but we praised each other, and all were questioning and curious.

At the end of the day pulled Pia a big box forward with sex toys. It caused great mirth and chatter went merrily. The time was well over six before we were finished and had gotten over my clothes on. We were going down to the local restaurant to eat together, and while we ate good food, we were twisted and turned many of the ideas we had in connection with that we had volunteered for the course. We had extended our borders together and built a strong cohesion, yes I would almost call it a woman together - at the risk of sounding like a feminist! At home waiting for my girlfriend very tense, and a bottle of red wine, I told what I had experienced. Before I went to bed, I read the instruction papers that Pia had given us for that lesson. I was very curious as to what Sunday would bring me the insight.

Sunday I come running up the stairs, because I could not find a parking space. I hasten to throw boots and jacket before I step into the room. Here we know the routine from yesterday: floor chairs stand in a circle and is inserted mugs and tea forward. To build the confidentiality again from yesterday, calls Pia us in turn to tell what had happened since yesterday, if someone had "trained" themselves and we had comments on the papers we had to read. Some had masturbated, some had had sexual intercourse, others had not done anything, one had been in a coffee shop in the morning to eat brunch and read on homework. After a few hours we are ready to move forward in the process, and Pia says we have to take our clothes off. Today we have the energy to look at each other, not just be shy and look down at the floor. Comfortably reclined up our "floor chairs" we are each assigned a mirror, a vibrator, a dildo "Barbell" and oil as needed. Now we learn to massage our gender. Pia move slowly, and we are all very concentrated. We aer, nulrer, clamps, massaging and clap while we laugh together when flying funny comments through space. The mood is light and effortless. We are in the process of learning about the three techniques: "Kegel exercises, hoftevip and sound on the breath" as Pia repeatedly repeats. We learn to use the vibrator alone and then with "barbell". We are five very concentrated women, the windows fog up and the room echoes of high and deep breathing sounds. Several women achieve orgasm, and Pia stops us up along the way so we can see and learn from each other.

I've never seen a woman have an orgasm, it's beautiful and it's a great experience to be here in this room that exudes intimacy, and get a glimpse of how other women express their sexuality.

We now have all got some tools we can choose to use active when we must learn to love ourselves, and love the woman we are. "Remember now that I have homework for the next six months!" Says Pia. "Put two hours three times a week where you treat yourself, spend time on your sexuality and masturbate your way to orgasm. An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away "fairs Pia and we laugh.

As I go home Sunday night during the winter of evening, I hover easily. I am saturated with impressions from an exciting and eventful weekend. Now I know what it's like to have an orgasm, and that I am not alone in all the many emotions that I daily go and grapple with.

Mille, 29, educator, Copenhagen NV: Dear Pia, I also say thank you for a lovely weekend as I am wildly happy (-;

I've got opened up a new and very lovely part of me by myself. It's just the beginning of a lot of wonderful experiences and I look forward to exploring myself even more. You are a talented, deep and competent therapist who with love and understanding makes you feel welcome and at ease. It is extremely important that at such a course feel that all feelings and reactions are welcome and I think you managed to create the feeling in us!

One's sexuality is inseparable from the rest of one's emotions and for my part, it has sparked a lot of other things I was not able to verbalize and has not been as aware of this before now! It has been moving and overwhelming, but also very very nice to have deliberately made the difficult thing .... then it's easier to do something about it! Have a good Pia, I'm considering another course .... (-; so we definitely seen again - it is safe.

Sara, 35, artist, Gentofte: I called Pia on her ad in the newspaper Politiken. On Friday evening I arrived to video night with Pia. I was among the first and got the room on the couch. It was not as bad as I had imagined. Having ordered some food, we started with the videos. One was about to accept and appreciate our genitals. Another of individual sessions - a third of a weekend course for Betty Dodsons method around 'self-love', as she called it, and orgasm training.

I had extended my comfort zone that night, by standing by myself and others that this was something important, I needed to learn more about - and I was told that this is normal. After much consideration and reluctance, I called the next morning to Pia to join me for the weekend course on the same day. We started at noon with talk about experiences, problems and ideas in the field. After a long talk, I felt better and was ready to embark on some exercises that worked with the energy in the abdomen and hips, breathing etc.

Betty Dodsons method and advice we got home on writing clear and easily accessible.
Last day on the course I was well aware that we should go a step further in the process. I decided from home that what I had been through the previous days had already called enough courage that I was successful. We were shown different sex toys and talked about sex in many different ways. Pia is very open, straightforward and trustworthy.

I should be over and another modesty border as we afterwards began first to massage our genitals and then orgasm training where we all four simultaneously with massagers, dildos, tested the movements we learned yesterday and the correct breathing. Once we started, took over the exercise. I experimented and practiced in getting what we had learned to be a natural part of the game: Kegel exercises, hoftevip and sound on the breath along with vibrator and dildo movements and sexual imagination and energy work. I managed to get multiple orgasms. I screamed and it was nice hammer. The others welcomed warmly that I gave lynx and I was very proud and happy. We completed the course both evenings eating together. It was nice. I highly recommend this course to anyone who wants to learn how to have an orgasm or just be better to get it - it strengthens confidence - considerably.

Rosa, 53, librarian, Køge: Hi Pia. Well back in my comfortable everyday I will tell you a big thank you for an exciting, border AND grænseudvidende orgasm weekend. Transboundary because I really overcame some internal barriers to myself and my own modesty and grænseudvidende because it was wonderful to discover that the world has so many more opportunities to act and be together than we normally get to experience.
It was big and VERY VERY NICE.

Thank you for your beautiful way of being. You took us by the hand and pulled us gently and carefully over the taboo borders, quickly got us to relax and let go, had created an atmosphere that was to bear, in the midst of all that overwhelming. And no, we had fun! I have rarely laughed so much as this weekend. I also cried a little, but it was good enough, it would just out, and now it's gone!

Where there are many opportunities to realize themselves if we just open up and dry, and where life can be big and beautiful, if only we dare throw the narrowing standards for "good and proper behavior" and all the limiting taboos overboard !

The very finest at the weekend was the wonderful natural and straightforward way, we could be together, stark naked and completely free and shameless, the great truism, we considered each other and ourselves, showed each our vulva forward, observed and commented on them and their great diversity among themselves, the way we were lined up with our massagers, dildos mm and rehearsed for making love to ourselves / love ourselves. It as to the degree seen as taboo, forbidden, hidden, non-existent in the public domain, was suddenly part, central, as it was all about, and it just seemed completely natural, totally natural. It was a big relief. It was also a great relief and almost revolutionary for me to discover that I am not abnormal / warped / wrong, because I'm not in a position to exert a tremendous orgasm in 5-10 minutes! There has dropped a large stone from my heart. Perhaps it is in fact the most important thing I learned during this weekend: it is the process and not the end goal, which is the most important, and that this process would be - yes even MUST - take time and time and time and that it is about enjoying and enjoy and enjoy along the way, not working hard like crazy to achieve the great goal in a short time. The purely technical side of things was also quite nice. I learned some techniques that I have already started to practice on. In the bus this morning I made Combined drag / drop and input / exhalation. You can do well, even though there is a lot of people around one, and then I get maybe a little faster track of breathing and pelvic floor exercises, so they will be automated. I have also started to say goodnight and good morning to my sweet vulva and talk nicely to her. We'll be fine with each other!

Among all the events we experience during our lives, there are some that are more seminal and entrepreneurial than others, some are truly rocks. This weekend is one of them. Thank you, dear Pia. Love, Rosa

Sanne, 31, chaos pilot, Fredensborg: Hello beautiful Pia on sexskolen! Already the first day of Orgasm training course I felt comfortable at Pia's warm personality. It was nice for me to listen to the other two participants' sexual history and understand that it was not only me who was reluctant sexually and had bad memories.

When we later in the day were naked, I had many feelings that came to the surface. I had long struggled with hatred of the body, so it was hard to show it to others. But Pia let it be ok to have those feelings and remain naked. When I saw my now beautiful vulva, in the mirror, I was critical, I do not think I was beautiful and I was afraid to analyze its various details. When Pia said I was beautiful, I did not believe her, but she appeared to have said it so sincerely that I later began to wonder if there was something exciting between the legs of me. I would like to borrow the mirror and see again.

My homework was to fondle myself. I sat an hour of and had a frustrating and beautiful experience. I enjoyed more and more to look at myself in the mirror and, after giving up turning on sexually, I still got an orgasm. The next day was even better. Pia taught us to bring the body into the act when we practice "self-loving" and I'm not ashamed to say that I got my first public orgasm. It was a beautiful experience and the other women's presence felt supportive.

Since I came home from the course, I have had great phone sex with my husband who was abroad. I did not think I could turn on him more .. but I was wrong! I learned to turn on myself and therefore also on him at Pia's course. Now I can get excited sexually several times during a day, even just while I sit on the bus. I see it as my human duty to take time for an 'erotic date' with myself often. Thank you.

Babe, 55, an immigrant teacher, Køge: It's Monday October 2002. At the weekend I was at orgasm course at Pia Struck. It started with a group of about 10 men and women so 3 videos with Betty Dodson. We got through this a thorough introduction to Betty Dodsons method as for me it is absolutely brilliant. She is the first sex therapist in the United States who have realized that 'learning by doing' is the only thing that truly rocks - and Pia Struck is the only one of the kind here at home! Already Friday night videos and Pias additional information makes at least some of my limits and beliefs about sex. Already I felt renewed hope that my longtime sex-phobia and lack of sex drive could be changed.

Over the weekend we were 3 women besides Pia - which is every bit as good as Betty! Of course we had different sexual problems, or rather different sexual blockages, but it did not matter. Pia started very gently - we talked and talked and asked if everything related to sex - and it was great, too, because Pia talked about it all, as if it were completely everyday natural thing, what it also made should be! We talked and looked at all kinds of different sex toys, which certainly also has been one of my barriers.

The course was called 'orgasm training' and that was what it was in the end. But it was also a course on how to get started with sex, in giving themselves permission and more. All the time went Pia front, turned on itself, how we should do. On the way she did it all very natural and non-hazardous. A useful part of it all is the body-techniques we learned. Everything takes place in a lovely, fun and safe atmosphere - you laugh a lot, and it's all hot, hearty and unpretentious.

I can highly recommend this course - also for you women, who may well have an orgasm and having sex, because the course moves frontiers, and one consciousness of depths they never knew they even had!

For my part, I find that I, as a middle-aged woman has a new desire (I can feel the urge, yippee !!) will have more self-esteem, more energy, more charisma and, last but not least, get more desire to make love with my lovely man.

All women should experience this course and the effect of it. Do it! - Even if you do not dare! I did not! It was not so bad!

Now it so to keep it all in just after Pia's instructions, and I will of course do everything. Otherwise I have to repeat the success with Pia. Finally a huge thank you to you who shared this course with me. And last of a big hug and thank you, Pia. See you certainly one day again and I look forward to. Sincerely babe.

Helene 42 years old, relaxation therapist, Nørrebro: Orgasm course in August 2002:

On the first day of the course met all a little shy up at the thought of the weekend program. The five women who had volunteered to orgasm course, was familiar with what the weekend would offer, since we all had been an introductory video evening where all Betty Dodsons ideas being presented.
The atmosphere was nice, comfortable and warm right from the start and that was not long before this forum free to talk about anything within the subject of sex and orgasm. It was very liberating experience. And when Saturday ended with everybody showed their wonderful, beautiful and very different vaginas forward, it felt like the most natural thing in the world.

Sunday stood at orgasm training. But first we had a little talk about how we had had it with yesterday's experiences. We agreed that it had been - no border, but rather grænseudvidende, - that our view of sex had taken on new dimensions. Things you thought you went alone, proved to be quite normal, myths about sex had been punctured and other facets of his shift one's curiosity.

Before the actual training started, showed Pia all his toys forward. Again it was liberating to be able to sit in this safe forum and ask naive to all the things you did not know a howling crap about. Pia has tried many facets of in many other branches of sexlivets diverse wood, and it was exciting to listen to and learn from. And when we have so knotted our comments and experiences to this, it was some very very fruitful conversations!

Now it was not just talk it all. All were given a vibrator and a dildo and then it was just about to get started. Under the guidance accumulated our sexual energy. There was no shyness, all were deeply focused on the task. Again a wonderful experience to lie there and moan with legs apart while orgasm rolls through one. And since we are after the break to wash our toys, none of us who gave it a thought that we all waded stark naked out in the hallway in the office building with massager and dildos in hands to wash them in the small adjoining kitchen late Sunday afternoon . It just felt natural.

I want these lines highly recommend everyone to participate in Pia Struck orgasm course. You get so many nugget home and a new insight into his life as orgasmic woman. And when Pia says you always just call if there's something you want to ask, so she believes it damn! Pia knows so much and understand what you're talking about. She manages to mirror back to you on a wonderfully warm way, then you will be really happy again.

Marisol, 37, coordinator of foreign aid, Vanlose: I am glad that I took on Pias video marathon followed by an orgasm training course, which ended last night. I have learned so much in these 3 days. I almost do not know where to start. I have learned so many new things - also very much about how we women are structured and how different we can be.
The very best of all was the fact the practical part. Breathing exercises, relaxation exercises and actual orgasm training.

I have an orgasm, but my problem is that I only get it in your sleep or coming out of sleep ... and that goes far between. I know I block when I'm awake.
On Pias course I've got some exercises that I can use to stimulate me to orgasm. Although I have not reached orgasm at the course, I know that I was very close. I have a much clearer sense of what orgasm is. It is not something mysterious that sneak up on me in my sleep. I know how I can move on.

For me the training much about finding my sexuality and have it come alive again. For too many years I have waited and hoped that the orgasm would come by itself, I just found the right partner. At times I have made exercises or masturbated to get on with my sexuality, but it was pretty boring.

After Pias course, I can see that what I have been missing a long time, is practical guidance on how I can masturbate. I have learned a lot, also about sex toys, but the best was the vibrator. Virtually all the times I have been licked my clitoris of a man, I think it was pretty boring, sometimes even uncomfortable. Therefore, I was even more skeptical of using something as "artificial" as a vibrator. Fortunately, I then got rid of the prejudice now. The first thing I did after I got home from the course was to put me to the computer and order the good vibrator on Betty Dodsons website!

Jeanne, 37, executive secretary, Greve: After participating in Pia Struck's very first Weekend Course in orgasm training is not only my orgasms has improved. I have more desire for sex, and I have more courage to take the initiative for sex. I've actually got a new and better sex life.

Much is probably because Pia has taken / removed a large part of all the "natural" or "social" inhibitions, which is closely linked to that a "nice girl" non initiates sex, she bares nor his lap and she do not tell the man where and how he should do, that she makes the most of the common game